marriage at the shore COPIED

Life as we know has it’s ups and downs , expect the unexpected, lean in , it’s not a rose garden.

On amd on I could go

We are all living our lives each day , that is brand new never before has the day been , nor will be again . Every single day each hour each minute is a gift pure and simple

Gaurutees not so much and there are not many things we can count on , that no matter what is consistent.

Well marriage is one such thing we can be garuntee

Has predictable results if we really accept the truth about our own humanness .

No perfection, no starry skies and rain bows every day . Marriage is hard it takes commitment acceptance and compromise.

It’s damn hard work , and although there are no Garuda tees it will work out or that it can be like a storybook life .

I can tell you a little secret ,

Let’s look at this glorious example of power grace and glory right in front of us is a secret .

The tide goes out slowly away from us , the deep water is shallow or not at all the sounds are softer a time of contemplation a time for reflection as we gaze all the space between us.

We settle into a familiar pattern ,wondering if we should seek something else or maybe we should just settle it’s easier ….. right ?

Then with all the predictability that has always existed quiet comes a bit louder

Who is each wave as it pulls back to the sea leaves a little less beach

The distance between us is smaller and if we except things that are the sea continues to rise and comes back always says it’s consistently coming in and going back seating and reaching forward

Play beautiful, amazing powerful Sea so so many times, and it doesn’t seem so great as hot as the answer now becomes a question for familiar is not Enough thought it would be different

That’s the tide it fills up all the space between us. It’s loud and exciting and part loud exciting and powerful and we remember what was we rebel and her familiarity and misses a future and now we know just like the time on marriage will Evan flow AB and flow ab ab and flow so we hang on we take the time when there’s more space and we love the time and we know it will always be